Without true love for Jesus Christ - from the heart - we will never be a close family, because God is Love, and without God, what we call love is just a plastic imitation.
It doesn't stand up to any heat. We will not - can not - have true love without God.
May Jesus Christ do a mighty work in all of our hearts.
Lord Jesus, please do whatever is necessary to show us Your power and authority, bring us all to our knees in submission before You, and cleanse our hearts from sin. I ask this in the Holy name of Jesus.